I Am Voting

I am voting for my grandmothers, both of whom were born before women could vote. One, raised in France, was sent to every school a girl could attend because her father wanted his children to have the best education possible and did not want their gender to be a barrier. The other, raised on a farm in rural Kentucky, went to a one-room school house and never graduated from high school. Both of them became productive members of society and raised good families and daughters who believed women could do anything. 

I am voting for my parents, who had only daughters, who taught us that we were capable and smart and could do anything we wanted. My parents, who raised us to believe that everyone was equal; that discrimination was wrong; that the color of one's skin didn't matter; that we should share our bounty with the less fortunate; that we should take care of the Earth that God made for us; that is it okay to disagree, but that it is not okay to be disagreeable.

I am voting for my dad, who was a precinct captain, and who let me canvass the neighborhood with him every election. I hung out the car window, putting flyers in mailboxes as he drove through the streets where we lived. My dad, who worked the polls every year, who got up at 4:30 a.m. to drive into town to get doughnuts for the workers and stayed until the end of the day. My dad, who would bring the election printouts home, spread them on the kitchen table, and sometimes let us call in the results to democratic headquarters. 

I am voting for my mom, who took us to the polls with her; who let us pull the lever to shut the curtain and then flip the smaller levers to vote for our candidates. My mom, who didn't go to college, but who made sure that her daughters did. My mom, who worked in a school for nearly 30 years as a teacher's aide, and raised hundreds of children and was dearly loved by all.

I am voting for my husband, who is a member of our armed services, who has spent 25 years defending our freedoms. My husband, who has been my partner for a quarter of a century, who believes that my job as a stay-at-home mom is equally important to our family as his; my husband, who is helping me to raise a son who believes that women are equal and our daughters, who believe that they are equal. 

I am voting for my son, who is seeing that the world is not always a nice place; who is trying to make it better; who stands up for his sisters and for women who are marginalized; who will lead his peers as the next generation of young men become old enough to make a difference.

I am voting for my daughters, who are beautiful and smart and can do anything they set their minds to. I am voting for my older daughter, who just last month, was called "sweetie" and "dear heart" by a male professor at a college she visiting to see if she wanted to attend in order to study chemistry. I am voting for my younger daughter, who doesn't take any crap from anybody, who once told a boy who said something mean about one of her friends, "That's my friend, and if you can't be nice to her, then I don't think we need to go out anymore."

I am voting for my 88-year old aunt, who I am taking to the polls on Tuesday. She needs a walker to get around. She has macular degeneration and is nearly deaf, but she wants to vote for the first woman president. 

Finally, I am voting for the best qualified candidate to come along in many generations. A woman who understands the intricacies of the world we live in today. A woman who is cool under pressure and compassionate to the less fortunate. A woman who knows what it is like to have to make tough decisions and who won't make them lightly. A woman who believes that America is already great and who will make it even better. 

I am voting for Hillary Clinton. I hope you will too.